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Game and Frame of Reference

The fundamental issue for a man is dominance in his own world. Something in the bigger picture of my college education made me understand something few of my peers would even accept, much less understand. This was the overwhelming necessity … Continue reading

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A Christian Psychology of Loss

To Christian men: I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved … Continue reading

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The Weakness That Keeps on Blessing

The vagaries of DNA and life experiences leave us with an array of weaknesses and advantages. For the latter, we tend to run in two extremes. We either exult in our superiority, as if no other person can match it, … Continue reading

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Historical Note: Women and Lust

It’s funny how people read their own cultural mythology back into history. The Old Testament offers sufficient notice women are turned on by studly guys. Hebrew writers also recognized it wasn’t so much a man’s physical qualities as the power … Continue reading

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Word to Women: Get Used to It

Women can wish all they want, and demand as much as they care, but they cannot change human nature. Men are hardwired to check out your appearance and rate your sex appeal. Whether speaking to your or not, this is … Continue reading

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Hard Headed or Hard Hearted

The Bible differentiates between commitment and meanness. We call someone a hard-head if they tend not to listen to advice, or even to learn from the evidence which beats them upside the head. They aren’t evil, just don’t appear to … Continue reading

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A Ruling Spirit

The barriers to the Hebraic grasp of spiritual matters are not hard to understand. Over the years during which I was trying to play the game in mainstream denominational Christian ministries, there were thousands of conversations about very fundamental issues … Continue reading

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Game and the Closed Christian Market

Christians true to their faith won’t worry much about relative sex rank. We learn about the Game Theory of Socio-Sexual Response because it explains reality. It represents human behavioral science at its best, observing real human behavior and building a … Continue reading

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The Gift of Aplomb

Sometimes the best reaction is none at all. There’s a fancy word we stole from the French — aplomb. It comes from their word for lead, that base metal which weighs a lot for its size, and is pretty soft, … Continue reading

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Light Switch, Part 7

They spent a few moments on the porch exploring the concept of letting her skin tell her she didn’t need the coat. “When people work outside a lot, their bodies adapt by doing a better job of both warming and … Continue reading

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